Today is day two of us owning a new Honda CR-V - 2wd-LX. NICE small SUV which will replace Karen's Honda Civic. We researched and shopped and internet-priced and bought the car yesterday, Memorial Day, 2006 (May 29th). WOW.
And then today, I contacted the NYC Fellows Program to find out what was holding up the notification to Sarah about her acceptance into that program. Turns out the trouble she had w/transcripts never got resolved to their satisfaction (i.e. NYCFellows never got a copy of the transcript) so her application went IN-active. Not good, imho.
An example? of a person "sabataging" themselves,. being self-defeating, etc.. The "Same old song" of... I am not ready... but then - my bosses don't mentor and they otherwise suck.... - so instead of stepping up I will hang back and complain...
BUT... what can I say? Nothing! What can I do... Nothing... I think, if I have not, that I must inform Sarah that all promises of help for music and/or school (I think it was really only for some music lessons) are off as of some short time in the future (like three months). SO... a clear break for responsibilities and obligations. I will help and be supportive... MAYBE... I think - loans are the way Ms. Sarah will need to go. Thus she will have ownership.
And so it goes....
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