Thursday, March 26, 2026

2026 Daily - 03/26/2026

 Long drive today. I'm not happy with seats. Will complain at survey time.

Saw cave dwelling and in Valencia saw wonderful stuff from outside. Actually.. Disappointed we did not have time to enter shot museum complex. Too long a drive for one day with no entry to cool places. That may be the same in Barcelona except for optional extras cost thing to Montserrat.

Seating: assumption that Vic and I were together; failure to give what Michael said we'd get on LONG trip, poor rotation that put us in front of bathroom. Oh... And lousy lynch at crowded road cafeteria. All in all . bad travel day. So that's that.

Off to included paeilla dinner... with drinks. Tried an ok aqua del Valencia.

Early up and out tomorrow. Last two days in Barcelona. More stuff ONLY from outside. I'm souring on Trafalgar.




Wednesday, March 25, 2026

2026 Daily - 03/25/2026

 i am tired, Its late-ish,,, I had a beer at dinner.... I am thinking... Drink less but then I drink alobg with friends. OY.

Day full... Alhambra plus walk around town of Granada. Nice place,

Lots of mentions of Jews,,, though few live in Spain. There has been a return of Moslems.... Interesting!!! Moslems came as workers recently. Jews still staying away though I note Chabad does have a presence as per web listings.

Nothing profound. Might try to write Ellen an email... Or to sleep perchance to dream

Tuesday, March 24, 2026

2026 Daily - 03/24/2026, day 4??!

 Good day. Cathedral in Seville as well as old Moslem building??? And flamenco at night.

And ... Me and choice.... As per automobile decision .  it vey!!!!

That's all for now. A bit late and a slightly early start to Granada tomorrow. 

Monday, March 23, 2026

2026 Daily - 03/23/2026, day 3??

 Is this day3 ???

Good day. Saw BIG mosque... Now a cathedral inside and operating.. In Cordoba. Quite a tour and site to see. Later a tour of an olive farm oil production place. Had a taste of one with definite tomato aroma. Bought for gifts and personal use.... Ad after I use Greek oil..  Today there was a lot of time on bus..  But alright.

Tomorrow... A cathedral and more and then dinner and flamenco show.

Tired now... Some Times games and then sleep.



Sunday, March 22, 2026

2026 Daily - 03/22/2026 - Toledo and Madrid, day 2

 End of day,,,, after optional dinner show,,, REALLY NICE,,,  Spanish opera and good food and wine and SANGRIA which I liked.

During day went to Toledo - I got some gifts and a souvenier, SawJewish Quarter and Synagogue, Saw some cathedral and government buildings from outside,,, Sunday meant we couldn't go it... BUT we did get to see the GREAT El Greco painting.

All together a good day,,, Lots of walking,  I used the knee supports, People all very nice, Talked w/Juan and Elena, Friendly folks. 

Talked movies,,, Last one mentioned, essentially = DIVA,

Now to bed,,, 7am bags out, breakfast, on the bus at 8.


Saturday, March 21, 2026

2026 Daily - 03/21/2026 - First day Spain w/Trafalgar

 End of first day with group. ok!!! Even got an invite to Mike's table when alone. Very nice of hin and i look forward to that. Things w/Vic and Hollie and Marie fine. Vic and I went to the Prada ... ok time. I was tire and that was a downer... I slept hardly at all last night. I hope tonight will be better. Also looked at bull fighting ring and took some pictures of outside. They still do it! And sometimes there is a statue of the father of antibiotics who helped save the lives of many matadors. Name - Dr. Flemming! Tomorrow... Toledo and more. party dinner tomorrow night.

The high speed train we took from Jerez to Madrid was kind of impressive. FAST - sometime over 150 miles and hour!

At dinner talked w/Neal from Cherry Hill who is traveling with his parents.A guy from India, I think. I mentiioned to Holly as followup to conversation last night = some more movies I like.. Grand Canyon, LA Story... more.

I am off to sleep NOW-10:20pm.

Friday, March 20, 2026

2026 Daily - 03/20/2026 - Jerez

Missed yesterday... Here now. Got hear after meeting Vic at train station...He was without luggage... airline problem. Getting resolved as I write and he is training back and forth to seville airport to put his hands on it... Seems good and will work.

Today - easy day ... fortunately we did not reserve a sherry tasting or Vic would have had to pass so as to get luggage. WE DID SEE a wonderful flaminco show..at Los Mejores Vinos De Jerez -- small venue, good seats, sherry and food and show... A lot!!!! 

We are now with Marie and Holly. Having some fun.. eating, drinking, talking, a bit of differences of opinion, aok... I hope and think.

Now it is half past 4 and chilling, digesting, I tried to walk to a church but got lost... came back ok...  .We had a lot to eat... tapas like... (and some pre-lunch ice cream). Dinner.... maybe .. Right now full.... but thought is to have a real meal. We'll see.

Tomorrow - early morning fast train to Madrid.. and hook up with Trafalgar Tour.

Right now... A nap... wake at about 5:30 and go to lobby.

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Listened to some music.. Canadian and other... On youtube.

Dinner...real, ok... Salad and carbonara.

Vic got back with his bag. 

And now .. Sleep and early morning start.









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Wednesday, March 18, 2026

2026 Daily - 03/18/2026.... Faith

 In hotel .. hostel in Seville. Good long day traveling. Tired. Took a shower. Texting and calling possible on my phone via Xfinity plan. Tested a bit. Looking good. Data something else.

Local time.. 7:10pm .. I'm hungry and heading out to eat. I've identified a place. More info later. Probably too bad I'm not spending more time in Seville. BTW... This hostel is basic inexpensive, clean.... Ok. 

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Faith from r. Nachmans book.... Faith in my self PARAMOUNT. And there's the rub... I just don't have a certain level of self confidence that I could and SHOULD. That is at core of my troubles.... Deciding things to do or get. Deciding about people. My waffling on issues is ok... To a point. Choosing what to finally and fully own is the problem. . rethinking thoughts .. ok ... Redoing that which has been done. Harder to undo. Possible... But sooner rather than later!!! Do I have the strength? What do I want, need....to change???? When???

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And..

Nice dinner at little local place. Got a little too much. But ok. Salmon and spinach lasagna.   Lots of cheese. Not sure of layers. I could work on it!!!

Heading to sleep soon .. lights out by 10pm  i AM tired. Good day. Tomorrow should be good, too!!!, maybe more so.

Tuesday, March 17, 2026

2026 Daily - 03/17/2026

  And today is st. Paddys... I'm heading to Spain. First flight aok..some turbulence... And new Yorker article k we PT in mind. 

And then.. What about planes flying??? seems like magic OR SCIENCE...  Well science explains what feels impossible! Yet TRUST is the thing about what happens and science tells its story which can result in new more advanced stories.. Can I, will I talk to some people about this??? why, what for?  


And then there's a black hat in the lounge... Shall I engage him about G-d??? From that new Yorker book review? I could ask... Can we talk a bit about hashem and kabbalistic emanations? And why would he know what? Anyway.. He's left. 

Who will be sitting next to me on next leg? 

So quiet day. Some texts ably my travels. Nice to have gotten into lounge... Maybe a bit early. They ware not very busy. The lounge has beer and other complimentary dtinks. And sandwiches. And cheese. And soup and salad and cookiu. GOOD. I'm going to stop eating and drinking around 9pm... Boarding around 10:30pm. I have no idea what will be served on plane. Not worrying.

Navigating the blog on my tablet ok... And I do have the keyboard to connect in future. Glad I tried this. Btw... Charging port here seems better, faster, stronger.

And... Now that's all for today.











2026 Daily - 03/16/2026

 this might be last post til April... as I am off to Spain tomorrow... BUT might be able to post... Just not so easy while traveling.

Today - just Facebook/WebCam for services .... Their zoom not working.

I am packed (mostly?). Plan to awake about 4pm and call an uber/lyft... Checked in. Weather warnings hopefully will not really interfere w/travels. 

Pub!ishing.... 3/17...at IAD airport

Sunday, March 15, 2026

2026 Daily - 03/15/2026 - yesterday w/Shabbat so no post... and today- CHANGE and Jonah, `

 It is morning on the 15th.... and I guess along with working out - I generally will not blog, either... unless I have the wherewithall after sundown... Which did not happen yesterday.. AND a break once a week is good!!!

READING - and thinking has be wondering about monotheism... a New Yorker book review suggested the primary thing was NO IDOL worship...within religous systems that have references to other gods or a trinity or many gods as amongst Hindu people... Interesting !!! And I wonder if "other" gods might be like preliminary offices/officials similar to bureaucratic folks you go through to get to the Main Person or to G-d? 

........Just got a call from Cindy in Florida... they were at the condo cleaning stuff out .. found some silverware and china which I said I would be interested in ... They will pack and ship... I keep saying -- hire someone .. but they will do as they will... very generous! I said something about my father not really wanting me to have/get anything. Cindy's response was - it was good I was in contact with my mother and sister at the end. Cindy said my mother loved me... I didn't share the thought that was part of last night's conversation w/Ellen where the idea that she and my father didn't know how to love. AND I would add something I alluded to in that conversation which was my mother was ineffectual... to some extent. Some have thought (Brucha) that she was the Queen Bee... and that may have been true .. that she was served or to be served by all... However - my father had Power... and he excercised it quite harshly!!! That is excused by some because that is how it was in those days... However - those of us (me) who suffered under that harshness did suffer and were scarred. And that may have/probably did happen to Debbie, too. She just took it differently.

BTW - she didn't know why my grandfather  on my father's side died  so I will put an email out to Arthur now. As I wrote ...  I thought -- maybe I did hear that he died of a heart attack. Anyway - will hopefully hear back, one way or another.\

Today, Sunday -- packing day!!! And workout. And check travel documents, etc.. and send a note to Vic to coordinate some travel. 

Yesterday had lunch w/Sarah - getting stuff clear for Passover... She has to get a lot of stuff since I will be gone. AOK... she is being terrific. And - Susan will make a kugel... Sarah and I will take care of salad, etc.. AOK!!!!

Also saw Ellen. Nice afternoon, early evening. Watched most of Sinners and I will finish that while working out. Had dinner at Walnut Creek Original Joe's which was very very good. Sat in the bar area which was fine. Sat near some young women who were celebrating a birthday and did some talking with them... Nice. Then I drove home to sleep in Davis and awake to do stuff... little of which I have actually gotten to yet -- and it is 10:30am. SO -- off to some staging of stuff for my trip, soon.

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Just received a note back from Arthur... Heart attack or stroke - probably at work...  Arthur ended note with the phrase - keep in touch... Made me think - well  - does he follow the rules of seniority?! As did my father... As I think about my father who never initiated a call/contact with me... I realize my father did maintain a relationship with his older brother but not his younger brother. Was that a matter of ageism? And then there is this very recent cartoon from the New Yorker which speaks to me:


Kid on swing talking to kid holding a ball.

“Do you want to be friends? The kind where you’re always the one who has to reach out?”
Cartoon by Jon Adams


Will I send it to him? To Michael Hirsh? Why bother? And what about another note to R. Simon? Maybe I will add it/make it my Sig File on emails? EEHH.... it is always - why bother?!!! Who do I care about?!!? As they care about me?

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Watched Oscars ... some interesting  not-seen movies out there!

AND from Recording NOTE I took while driving:

Change -- Jonah is a story about change...Who really changes?  People of Niniveh certainly try? Jonah doesn't change from beginning to end... His caring empathy is absent throughout the story! Individual does not change... Group does change.... And whether or not the change holds is a question for the future while in the moment... it IS REAL... 

Is change possible is so often a question. Are we free? From this I considered maturing understandings of G-d...  And I wonder - who is comfortable hearing about another's understanding of G-d - or is that often uncomfortable!??? 

AND THEN - listening to R. Nachman of Bratzlav book... and DESPAIR??? which I have felt relative to Israel and it can apply to anti-semitism...

BUT ABOUT ME... well --- YES, terribly. I too often awake and say - I just don't care... It doesn't matter -- whatever "IT" is?

HOWEVER - the point always is: CHOICE... we are FREE to CHOOSE how to proceed... each day, each moment, with each person, each situdation, etc etc etc...!!!

Note: Despair and Change and Freedom and Caring and Choice... -- ALL connected....  or only a subset .. but these are the essentials... to the FUTURE... to tomorrow...  I can/do feel anxiety... AAHHhhhh...

What is The Arc of History... And - HOPE HAPPINESS HERE -- The Way is HERE.... Mindfulness... Seeing, noticing... whatever one wants to noticibly feel...

FROM SECOND NOTES, Recorded

Monotheism vs Idolotry... Phycical idols vs functional idols.. i.e. Intermediaries...And Kabbalah has the ten emonations... Early anthropromorphism was real... and it was The Way to Communicate... talk to humans in human language... BUT - if metophorical... or viewed as such and then MATURE... to The Force... or at least to something beyond physicality, etc.. 

AND THATS ALL FOLKS....

Friday, March 13, 2026

2026 Daily - 03/13/2026 - Unveiling decided -- and SEMANTICS...!!!

 ahhh... to be Friday the 13th ... when this is published - even though I am beginning it the night before with a THOUGHT...

NOTE - just off the phone w/Cindy - it is now 1pm California time -- and I told her I will not be there for the "unveiling". Halachachly -- the "stone" is or will be up... unveiled - at the mausoleum?? --- SO that is what is required by halachah. DONE....  And sometime around/after Passover -- boxes of stuff will arrive from Cindy and maybe something from the sale of the car... - MY CAR? - sheeeeeshh.

Later today -- concert of Univ. Chorus in Pitzer Hall... which we are told has sold out its 350 or so seats. AOK! Now -- a nap.... 

I have thought this before ... and may have written a bit... but let me say the following:

With AI on the horizon and likely taking many Human-jobs ... well we have the same type of thing in the early 1800's or so with Sabateurs ... workers throwing their wooden shoes into the new machines... We did get over that ... I think.

THE POINT -- a generation or two of human-workers who expected jobs and which AI can do instead -- will leave those people feeling UNproductive, Useless... etc etc.. Real feelings and thoughts... AND AN ANSWER -  a solution... is to be sure they have sufficient funds to live good lives... and do whatever they may want to do... creative, whatever -- BASED on the fact that todays unemployed workers are living on the shoulders of their predecessors ... See the intro to the book: Language in Thought and Action by Hayakawa -- there he gives a comparison to how a society can think about unemployment and such... One way or the other way... Positive or Negative.... 

WE DO KNOW WHAT CAN BE DONE TO SUCCEED AND GET OVER TRYING TIMES!!!!!

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The Hayakawa - Semantic Parable.... explained, exampled by AI:


A semantic parable, famously exemplified by S.I. Hayakawa, illustrates how language shapes reality. In a town where citizens confuse words with the things they represent, they become trapped by labels, whereas a neighboring town thrives by realizing words are merely arbitrary symbols, highlighting that the map is not the territory. 


The Town of "Fix" and the Town of "Flow"

Once, there were two towns, separated only by a shallow river.

In the Town of Fix, the inhabitants believed that words were the reality. When their ancestors first settled, they wrote a strict "Book of Naming." If a child was named "Diligent," but liked to play, the elders scolded them, saying, "You are a Diligent, therefore you cannot play." If a sturdy oak tree was designated as "Dangerous," no one would sit in its shade, even though it offered perfect protection from the sun.

Their lives were orderly but stagnant. Because they believed their map (the language) was the territory (the world), they refused to update their labels. When the river changed course, they insisted it was in the old location, because "The Book says the river is here." They spent their lives struggling against a changing world, shouting labels at the changing landscape. 

In the Town of Flow, the inhabitants used the same words, but treated them as labels—useful tools, but not the things themselves. If a child named "Diligent" played, they said, "The child is acting in a lively manner, not a diligent one." If a tree was designated "Dangerous," they evaluated it yearly; if it was safe, they sat under it, saying, "The label has changed, so we change our actions."

When the river changed course, they said, "The map is outdated," and drew a new one.

The Moral:
The Town of Fix perished because they worshipped the word, ignoring the world. The Town of Flow thrived because they realized that 
words are maps, not the territory itself. The meaning is not in the word; it is in the context and in the person holding the word. 







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a semantic parable

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A Semantic Parable

" usually refers to a famous story from S.I. Hayakawa’s classic book, Language in Thought and Action. It illustrates how the labels we use for things can change our feelings and behavior toward them.

The Story of A-Town and B-Ville

The parable follows two fictional communities, A-Town and B-Ville, both hit by a severe economic depression that leaves many people unemployed.

  • A-Town (The "Relief" Town): The leaders decide to give money to the unemployed. They call it "relief" or "charity." Because of these words, the people receiving the money feel ashamed and "less than," while those paying the taxes feel resentful about supporting "loafers." The community becomes bitter and divided.

  • B-Ville (The "Insurance" Town): The leaders here provide the exact same amount of money, but they call it "social insurance" or "unemployment compensation." Because these words imply something the citizens have earned or are entitled to as part of a system, the recipients feel no shame, and the taxpayers see it as a necessary civic function. The community remains stable and cooperative.

The Lesson

The parable demonstrates that words are not the things they represent—they are just "maps" for the "territory".

  • In both towns, the physical "territory" (giving money to people in need) was identical.

  • However, the different "maps" (the labels "relief" vs. "insurance") created two completely different psychological and social realities.

This story is a foundational example in General Semantics, teaching that our reactions are often triggered by our own verbal definitions rather than the actual facts of a situation.

Would you like to explore more about General Semantics or see other examples of how labels affect our behavior?

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