Comfort and Control..... Who has it?

Ah, who controls? What is control? Is control good, bad, ugly?

All in the eye/mind/spirit of the one controled or controling. SO - if I avoid going here, there, etc - then the reasons I "avoid" is controling me. The reason might be safety. A reason might be comfort... In fact - perhaps COMFORT IS the point. And - being UNComfortable... ala - Pema Chodron IS the answer.

Of course - some controlling people will get the cooperation, so to speak, of the person who is trying to control. Ah... oh well. One can't make people cooperate or not or... whatever.

Most people mean to be good and control is probably often meant to be helpful. BUT - if a person feels controlled then that probably signals a lack of comfort and/or acceptance and/or understanding and therefore either communication should make clear the intent and the benign nature of the "control" OR the "control" should be stopped.

I must say that COMFORT is the least important reason for doing anything. Hasn't it been said taht "the comfortable go to hell"? or something.

Ah... to be comfortable... for how long? Why? WHAT IS COMFORT OR COMFORTABLE? Who knows? Who really has it? Anyone? Maybe not... since? all is in flux. All is uncertain. All changes. SHEEeeeeeSHHHHHH